Babywearing Saved My Sanity
Let me start this by saying I should be in bed since my baby is finally asleep. If not that I should be writing another post for my How to Cook series. However I saw something that bothered me enough I had to share this story. Motrin has a new ad campaign that is insulting to moms in general and specifically to moms who wear their babies. After watching the ad they are going to have to do some serious PR recovery before I ever consider using their product again.
But they aren’t what’s important. What’s important is to talk about why babywearing rocks. My first daughter got sick when she was young. She never slept and I don’t mean how babies normally never sleep. I mean really almost never slept. She was happy… if she was held constantly. For months I took her to the doctor saying something was wrong and was told she just had a little virus. At 9 months of age she started throwing up daily and the doctors finally listened to me. At 11 months of age she was diagnosed with food allergies/intolerances but it wasn’t until 18 months that we worked out what enough to keep her healthy most of the time.
Two things saved us during this time, nursing and babywearing. Nursing preserved my daughters health. We now know there is one single formula in one single format that is corn free. That means any other formula including several for kids with allergies would have made her a million times sicker. Breastfeeding was the only reason this rough time wasn’t an whole lot rougher.
However constant nursing, special diets, lack of sleep, etc were very hard on me as her mom. The one tool that helped me more then anything was babywearing. My slings were my miracles. They did the following without ever putting down my daughter:
- Chores
- Eat in restaurants (even fancy ones since the baby was asleep on me)
- Grocery shop
- Nurse anywhere discretely (And when your baby nurses every hour it’s that or never leave the house)
- Take walks
- Visit with friends
- Drop in my old work place
- Sleep sitting upright in a chair
- Read a book
My sling let me do my mommy stuff and my me stuff. What was my alternative? Put a sick baby down and just let her wail? Motrin should be ashamed to put out a video that might make new moms see such a useful tool in such a negative light. Babywearing saved my sanity. Babywearing let me have a life. It might not be for everyone but in my case it seriously rocked.
Now if you’ll excuse me I should really be asleep.
If you are interested here’s a link to a great video on other moms reaction.






